Posted by:
ExMoBandB
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Date: February 26, 2015 04:02PM
I needed to constantly remind myself of this, when we were leaving the cult, and the Mormon priesthood leaders harassed us all the time. In the end, I told the various priesthood men, face-to-face, on several of their confrontations, "You have no "authority" from God. You can't speak for God. You can't tell God what to do. You have no authority over me. You have no authority over my family." They also have no authority to be on my property.
This shouldn't have antagonized my neighborhood, because no one should have known about it--oh, that's right. They have that strengthening the members committee, or whatever it's called, and Mormons are encouraged to gossip about us. Anyway, I play a strictly defensive game, which shouldn't offend anyone.
Even now, with the Mormon neighbors (very similar to Torturednevermo's neighbors), I must remind myself that they have no power over me. They are not better than I am. I own my own house, free and clear. This is my neighborhood, too.
I never show my feelings, either, even though I cried a lot, at first. You can't show weakness around Mormons. They will appear sympathetic, but they will use it against you. For example, when I was terribly sick for a long time, and had to take a leave from work and from my church callings, the home teachers, the bishop, and even the stake presidency came over to my house--not to visit a lonely sick woman, not to give a blessing, not to offer comfort or help, not to bring dinner--but to threaten me that if I didn't return to church and pay thinking again and fulfill my callings again, I would get sicker! Sickness was my achilles heel.