Posted by:
randyj
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Date: January 27, 2015 09:32AM
We regularly see posts on this BB from people who write that a lot of active members are questioning the church, thinking about quitting, have quit, etc. It's nice to get a feel for what is actually happening from an active member who holds a leadership position and is privy to the facts.
In my personal life, I don't really see anything happening. My TBM relatives on facebook, what few there are, are still TBM, and my inactive Mormon relatives don't care enough about the church to bother resigning, even though I have dozens of them who haven't gone to church for 20, 30, or 40 years except for weddings and funerals. Most of them, including the TBMs have no clue as to what's happening with John Dehlin, the essays, etc., and they have no interest in it.
About 7-8 years ago, a young man posted here who lives in my city. We got to talking, and it turned out that he's the son of a long-time former bishop and SP counselor in the local stake. He also told us that another former HC---the brother of a former SP who was currently a mission president---had also left. So we got together, along with Eric Kettunen (the founder of this website) and his lovely wife and went out to dinner and talked crazy Mormon sh*t for hours.
The young man's father didn't go with us to dinner, but I spoke with him, and he and his wife had left the church. It's also cool that he's a very prominent, highly-regarded local business owner. It was kinda funny that just a few years earlier, I was a bishop's counselor, and that guy was a SP counselor who used to visit our ward.
About your stat that 25% of active members are full tithers---I was clerk in three different wards, and that's about how it ran when I was involved in it. There was a thread here just a coupla weeks ago on that subject. It was usually a handful of high-income earners who contributed the lion's share of tithing every week.