Posted by:
cludgie
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Date: January 26, 2015 07:33AM
Last months I greeted the HTs when they arrived, an late-50s guy with 17 year-old chirpy son. (DW wife, on account of being married to a backslider, has to be taught by HP. You may know the drill.) I did it again last night. Iremained cordial throughout, but it was hard not to engage with snarkiness.
The lesson was read off of the home teacher's smartphone, and was about how President Monson had the balls (he didn't say "balls," "bollocks," or "nads") to give up a Navy commission because it might interfere with his bishopric meetings and might have to drill on Sundays. And that proved that the Lord blesses us if we tell even the military that we can't work on Sundays, and we might even become prophet some day.
I countered with a story by former LDS Commandant of the Coast Guard, 4-star Admiral Paul A. Yost, Jr., whom I heard twice speak at an annual all-military fireside in the DC area. His message was 180 degrees from old man Monson. His premise:
1. The military needs LDS.
2. As a good LDS, you should provide only the best example, be there for all activities and support the military or not be in it.
3. Adm. Yost said he never had patience for LDS people who insisted they couldn't report for certain formations because of "church and family," and LDS guys would find themelves not getting promoted and having to leave the Coast Guard if they did that.
I figure it's good to have an opposing view, if you can find one, from another LDS figure.
Afterward, DW asked me why I had begun attending the HT lessons, and I said--possible with a snarky tone (I hope not)--that "obviously the lessons need a bit of policing." She didn't like the answer, but I'm going to keep on doing it.
As a side note, I notice that they otherwise ignore me. They ask only DW if it would be okay to have a prayer, then ask her to choose someone.