Posted by:
anonsometimes
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Date: January 12, 2015 05:11PM
Here is a little background on our situation. Dh, me & our 3 children left tscc 3 years ago after discovering the truth online. After leaving we tried to maintain the relationships with our tbm family members but after about two years of dealing with their poor & awkward behavior toward us we have since distanced ourselves. The relationships use to be great and we saw our tbm family members frequently. We tried to have conversations with some of them about their behavior but they either pretended like they had no idea what we were talking about, blamed it on us (our fault due to leaving) or told us that yes their poor behavior was a reaction to being "uncomfortable around us".
The weird thing is they still ask to come over and visit us when in town or during the holidays. They also keep calling, emailing & texting. I just don't get how they can act that way around us i person & still want to get together. We have been MUCH happier since not seeing them anymore. Another family member just asked if she could bring her family over to our home when she is in town in a couple of months.
I was just wondering if anyone has any thoughts or advice on this?