Posted by:
portlandpupa
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Date: December 20, 2014 02:21PM
If "Dave" is now turned off to all things religious/spiritual and would not be likely to join a recovery group then perhaps you could share the following link below.
https://rational.org/index.php?id=1Then click on "crash course on AVRT"
AVRT is not about convincing people to stop drinking. It is a very strong tool that works for people who have made up their mind to stop. It is based on the structural model of addiction and is very different than the approaches that AA promotes. I know two close friends, both exmos, that have used AVRT successfully. RR is very anti-recovery group and advocates that you do it on your own. The entire program is contained in one book "rational Recovery" by Jack Trimpey. He is a former alcohol abuser and disagrees strongly with the assumptions made by AA.
Assuming Dave's desire to change his behavior is a function of believing he can stop times his sense of urgency to stop now, AVRT can help Dave by increasing at least the first variable. Knowing he has a way out that works may also help his sense of urgency too. Esp. if he is in crisis, such as, being evicted. I hope he gets his s*&t together soon.