Posted by:
jonesb
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Date: December 20, 2014 06:25AM
I'm in a tight spot. I'm ready to exit but there are so many cultural issues keeping me in.
1. My wife is what I would call a good TBM. Just a good person. Not really judgmental. She has said that she will support me in whatever I choose. But I know it will hurt her.
2. My kids. I don't want to miss out on being a part of their baby blessings and baptisms and all that crap. I know none of it is real, but from a cultural standpoint it is very real. It was very much a part of my growing up.
I don't mind many of the cultural aspects of the church. But I don't think I'm going to be able to be truthful in my next temple recommend interview and pass. I'm ready to exit. I'm ready to have a beer.