Posted by:
Classical Guy
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Date: December 20, 2014 04:47PM
I know someone on RFM who did a 2-1/2 year mission . . . MY DAD
Quoting from
http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,1332633,1332661#msg-1332661"I too am in my fifties and have a father who is 85+ and is a fifth generation BIC member. I read an article several months ago that made me search to see if Joseph Smith really translated the BoM with a rock and a hat. It disturbed me so much that I had to prove it wrong. Suddenly, I learned that it was true and that the perfect image I had of Joseph Smith suddenly began to fall rapidly. I couldn't stop reading. Before long I was digesting MormonThink. At each new discovery I would go over to my dad's house and share what I had just discovered.
"My father had been one of those TBM's that bought tons of books and read about deep doctrine. He considers himself a truth seeker. As I began to tell my father one thing or another, he would try to look up apologetic material to find answers. One day I went over late in the evening to show him the section in MT by Tom Donofrio -- the section of parallel wordings and stories in the BoM and other American writings of Joseph Smith's day. When I read a story line that ended similar to "Brethren Adieu" my dad flipped. He then started reading MormonThink.
"Long story short, after three months of sharing information, my TBM dad said, "the church is a fraud." One year later on one of my visits, I walked into his bedroom while he was reading RFM. He simply said, "I hate this church."
"This came from a man who had dedicated hundreds of thousands of dollars to tithing, building funds, scouts, at least a dozen full time missionaries, temple funds, fast offerings, etc. He's still in debt $200K on his mortgage because of all the $$$ he gave to TSCC over the years. Now he wished he had it all back and was debt free.
"My dad, in his late years, read the material and learned for himself that the Mormon Church cannot stand on its foundational claims. Period. He has not been to church in 1-1/2 years and never wants a thing to do with it again.
"His only regret: the money spent and the huge posterity of TBM's that he now has in the brainwashed clutches of the Morg. He regrets it all. But, he now lives guilt free and tells me often how happy he is that I persisted at showing him what I was discovering.
"Everyone is different and may or may not be open to the truth, especially in their twilight years. Those who are really honest with their minds (like my dad) and are not afraid to read anything CAN leave the church and become an exmo."
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My DAD now reads RFM everyday and loves it!