Posted by:
forestpal
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Date: October 30, 2014 06:44PM
It sounds like you are surrounded by a-holes. It is difficult to separate yourself from people around you, when you feel helpless. Your problems are not related to your opinion of the Mormon church. God is not punishing you. Leaky drains and such are just life happening, and "it rains on the good and evil alike." I doubt if your former bishop or any other Mormon would have come to your house to fix your walls, or tell your TV neighbor to turn it down. It seems unfair that you have to deal with so many problems that are not your fault.
Are you in a rural area? In Utah?
Do you have any family?
Are you a senior citizen?
I can see that you are attached to the idea of living in your own separate place--especially because you have animals. But--honestly--I know a lot of people who have moved into a condo or an apartment, and they love the freedom. Most of these people could afford a larger place, but they don't want all that responsibility and maintenance. I lived all alone with a big house and yard for 7 years. I love yard work and animals, but my chronic illness took a lot of the fun out of it. Luckily, my daughter and her family have moved here for a few years, while they save money for a house. It is noisy, I probably work harder than ever (plus my career), and I get tired, but I'm happier than I have been for years! It seems like you have only one bedroom (otherwise, you'd be sleeping in a quieter bedroom), but there are solutions, and human beings can adapt.
See a doctor now, first, and don't wait until things get better. When you don't feel well, life can seem overwhelming. When you get your energy back, you will start figuring out solutions.
Good for you, for calling the police. Call the doctor next. You will feel more in control, as you take care of yourself.
Have you tried ear plugs--the wax kind? They work, and are cheaper than sleeping pills. Turn on your radio, and tune it to play static. This is the same as "white noise." A white noise machine is expensive, and a radio does the same thing, to drown out your neighbor's TV. Move your bed away from the wall, or turn it around, so your head is toward the center of the room. Sleeping with pets can disturb your sleep, too.
I hope tomorrow looks brighter for you. Please let us know how you are doing.
Oh, you didn't say how long you have been out of Mormonism, but most of us were shunned by our Mormon friends and neighbors, and even family members, when we left the cult. Shunning makes you feel very, very alone. Look around for people who will be good to you: Police, doctors, nurses, GOOD neighbors, 911 and ER workers, community groups, senior citizens centers, etc.