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SL Cabbie
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Date: October 30, 2014 01:12AM
The owner of the Utah Boys Ranch is none other than former Utah State Senator Chris Buttars. Politically, he's a headcase I've skewered on more than one occasion, but my sources also tell me he's a compassionate sort who understands the power of a "therapeutic community." I've heard of "excesses," but I also saw how manipulative and dishonest troubled adolescents can be...
I worked for several operations in the late 1980's, and part of the problem is the kid who is "the identified patient" is frequently merely a focal point for the family dysfunction (often, as noted, an abusive parent, a father and mother who are basically incompatible, and a lot of "multi-generational" crapola that's handed down). In other cases where addictive disease or other mental problems are present, it's the parents who are "the victims."
I saw one operation I worked for briefly that was, IMHO, far worse than the Utah Boys Ranch (no opinion, really on them; I don't know enough to make a judgment call), and yet I ran up against some "shoot the messenger" stuff when the problems became apparent. Speaking out hurt me politically and was part of the reason I left the field.
I also saw another unit with some really toxic folks in charge, but a number of solid recoveries emerged nevertheless.
It's really tricky to identify problem areas in teenagers, even though we know that alcoholism/addiction is often clearly present in some at that age. It's true, however, that adolescent delinquency is no predictor of adult delinquency (one reason I'm often appalled when a juvenile is "certified" as an adult).
Sadly, the "profit motive" is a factor for a lot of operations, and many are "pied piper" in nature, and parents who think their teens are in trouble are often easy marks. The rigidity of "The Mormon Mindset" often contributes to this unhealthy situation; a few years ago I gave a kid a ride home who'd been in the program I mentioned. It was clear to me he had no alcoholism issues; he was now in his 20's and was taking a taxi home around ten at night after a few drinks and listening to some live music. Obviously, that was a case of over-zealousness and misdiagnosis, and there's really no argument something "misfired."
As for the solutions, well, as my old brother-in-law used to say about business consulting, it's easy to coach but hard to play...
I never see anything wrong with sending parents to the appropriate support group (althogh I have misgivings about some such as "Tough Love," even though their tactics have merit at times).
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/30/2014 01:14AM by SL Cabbie.