Posted by:
cupcakebaby
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Date: October 24, 2014 01:32PM
Thank you guys for all your responses. They really do help a lot and I appreciate it.
I would like to make it clear though that my parents are, underneath the Mormon surface, really, really, really good people. They're loving, kind, funny, and always well-intentioned, but when it comes to the church, they are painfully naïve. The only reason I'm so upset with them right now is because, like I said, they can't even see that they're just tossing their minds away to a cult, and that completely breaks my heart. And it makes me feel like I'm only getting part of them, like the other side of them that enables them to think independently and make decisions based on facts instead of feelings, one of the most vital parts of a person's mind, is being stolen. That pisses me off. Mostly at the church, but partially at them too, for allowing it. And I know it isn't their totally fault because it's a near impossible thing for a brainwashed mind to recognize, and for the most part I make peace with it, but sometimes it gets to be too much. Once I finally got all that off my chest in the original post, I'm back to feeling pity for them and hoping with all my heart that one day they make it out. But I'm only seventeen, so I guess I'm still inclined to a few "life isn't fair" fits, lol.
But I hope I move on from this anger toward the church/unbearable pity for my parents *soon,* because it is starting to damage my relationship with them, which is the last thing I want. I would like to have things differently, but if all I can have with them is a partial relationship sans the discussion of anything religious or political or moral, then I'll take it. Not that I think you have to view eye-to-eye with someone on every little issue to have a fulfilling relationship, but there is a big difference between having opposing views and feeling the pain of seeing someone you love giving up the control of their lives. I just really, really hope they make it out someday, for their own sake. I think I'm just feeling intense disappointment in them, rather than spite toward them. Or something, I don't know. I feel something different everyday—every second, really. I'm kind of a mess right now.
Again, thank you guys for your responses. I really appreciate your help.