Posted by:
perfectmormongirl
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Date: October 21, 2014 11:32AM
I'm new around here, but I really feel like I need some support with an issue. I was BIC, but left when I was 18 (16 years ago) because I realized I didn't ever beleive in a god, and I was just going along with the mormon thing to please my parents. I'm pretty sure they think I'm just still rebelling (I was actually quite the little angel).
Four years ago my dad retired, and they wanted to serve a mission. Because of their aging parents though, they felt it wasn't a good idea to leave the area. They were able to do a service mission though that just happens to 10 minutes from my home (they live a couple hours away).
They've been happily commuting for their church mission for years, but they never stop by to see their grandchildren. It's been a slap in the face, but at least I could take my children to them for visits. But now, they've been called to a new mission. They are being released from their mission here so they can serve as stake missionaries in their home stake. They will have to go through the MTC and everything. My mom was explaining to me that it was going to be hard to make church the focus of their lives (no cleaning out closets!), and wear the name badge everywhere they go, but they feel like it's something they have to do, even though it isn't something they signed up for.
My mom is the insecure type. My toddler won't even go to her--because she's a stranger. But of course my mom gets jealous of the other grandma who my toddler loves. My in-laws are always doing whatever they can do to help our family and bond with the kids, so naturally my kids adore them.
I guess my question is, can anything be done here? If I even tell my parents what my concerns are, is that going to blow up in my face? Will they think I'm satan if I tell them this mission isn't a good thing for our family? (my sister believes but isn't active--has a son on a mission, by brother doesn't believe)