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Posted by: Jael ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 11:06AM

I don’t want to belong to a church that actively deceives its members.

I don’t want to belong to a church that uses discipline to intimidate and control.

I don’t want to belong to a church that requires money from its members and then spends it frivolously on real estate and business ventures, with no public disclosure or input from the general membership.

I don’t want to belong to a church that spends more time and money on serving the dead than it does on serving the living.

I don’t want to belong to a church that doesn’t allow its members to think and act independently.

I don’t want to belong to a church that discriminates.

I don’t want to belong to a church that preaches honesty and integrity and charity, but sustains leaders who don’t practice it.

I don’t want to belong to a church that has the arrogance to claim to be the 'one and only' true church on earth and tries to back up that claim using false history.



I'm not ready to go public with friends and family, but it feels really good to say it somewhere. :)

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Posted by: heberjgrunt ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 11:23AM

is a business not a church.

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 11:36AM

the Blatant Hypocrisy of LDS, Inc. is a deal-killer.

it's a wonder that they sleep knowing what they know.

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Posted by: ificouldhietokolob ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 11:42AM

"I don't want to belong to a church."

That would have done it right there for me :)

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Posted by: thedesertrat1 ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 02:09PM

Frankly I actually don't WANT to belong to a church at all

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Posted by: Jael ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 02:16PM

I agree! No more organized religion for me.

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Posted by: The StalkerDog™ ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 02:40PM


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Posted by: masonfree ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 02:41PM

I don't want to belong to a church that forces small children to "testify" to things they don't actually know at the pulpit, or

...assigns reading from the same boring books to be discussed the same way for the same hour with a clock that always seems to be running slow and a Ben Stein wannabe for a teacher for the rest of my life.

...only allows women to pass the sacrament tray within the pews, but acts shocked if they as much as touch the thing elsewhere.

...forces adults to receive advice from often less wise adults than themselves, or gives obviously unwise people authority that they obviously aren't ready for just because they had a "feeling."

...everyone else knows more about than I do simply because I'm a member of it.

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Posted by: fakemoroni ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 04:17PM

...would have me as a member.

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Posted by: Bradley ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 07:28PM

...tells me what to think
...judges people
...is patriarchal

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Posted by: donbagley ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 07:31PM

is mandatory.

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Posted by: presleynfactsrock ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 08:01PM

......is such an obvious, ridiculous, magic-based fraud that enjoys lying, stealing, and conning and will stop at nothing, even murder, to further its evil goals.

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Posted by: Carol ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 09:06PM


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Posted by: neverevermo ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 11:15PM

--makes me feel closer to god when I leave

--treats it's followers like dirt to be used, stolen from, and lied to

--encourages arrogance for no reason whatsoever.

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Posted by: scarecrowfromoz ( )
Date: October 20, 2014 11:22PM

...was founded by a person convicted of defrauding people of their money through treasure hunting.

...was founded by a person who established an illegal "bank" to scam members out of their money.

...was founded by a person who thought that common Egyptian funerary texts were about Abraham.

...was founded by a person who thought the Kinderhook plates were real, and not forged.

...was founded by a person who conveniently wrote Doctrines and Covenants given to him by God, that justified the founder's illegal actions.

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Posted by: surroundednjudged ( )
Date: October 21, 2014 01:19AM

Dictates my role in life based on my gender.

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Posted by: moremany ( )
Date: October 21, 2014 09:34PM

Ignores me on the street and denies everything it ever taught me

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