Posted by:
eternal1
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Date: October 21, 2014 12:56PM
There's some great advice here. Yes, diet and exercise can help. Yes, communication is important. Yes, being nervous or feeling guilt can cause some problems.
But, here's the thing. You said:
"However the thing that still worries me is I'm just less horny in general. I don't have to jack off all the time like I used to. I can shower after shower without even a thought of rubbing one out. That's what makes me think my chemicals aren't all there...because it's not just something I've noticed when I'm with her."
Hormones, specifically testosterone, are what gives you that horny feeling. If your chemicals are out of balance, all the other advice will have little effect on the problem. The only way for you to know is to have your blood tested. This requires a trip to a doctor, preferably one that has dealt with male hormone issues before. Not all doctors are knowledgeable about this. I've actually had a urologist tell me that hormones don't have any effect in men.
You're still relatively young. Generally, testosterone levels in men start dropping at about 40. But, not all men are the same. Some never really have a problem, and others have it much earlier. For me, it was about 40. For my nephew it was mid 30's.
Not everyone has the same symptoms. For me it was brain fog/memory that I noticed the most. I also had some fatigue and some libido issues but chalked that up to getting old (40), like many men do. The doctor checked my blood and sure enough, it was low T.
Hormone replacement therapy has made a world of difference. I'm in my 50's now and still horny as ever. It's happening slowly, but, men are finally willing to accept the idea that it's ok to get medical help to stay healthy and maintain their quality of life. Sex is an important thing, physically and emotionally, to every guy I know. If you've noticed that you "just don't feel horny in general" anymore, that's a red flag. Please consider going to your doctor. While the advice here is good, the advice of a trained medical doctor would be far superior. Low testosterone is a serious medical condition which without treatment can lead to problems you don't want to have. Here's one site of many that may help you to understand. Google is your friend. There are many sites giving plenty of info about low T as well as support groups for men dealing with it. And, if this turns out not to be your problem, at least you have narrowed it down, since there are other problems that can cause similar symptoms.
http://www.mens-hormonal-health.com/low-testosterone-symptoms.html