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Date: September 30, 2014 12:49PM
I was talking with a former high school classmate yesterday about another one of our classmates that recently died. The classmate I was talking with is an Evangelical Christian.
We were also talking about a home town couple who have a son who is gay and is a successful fashion designer in New York City. She was very impressed by how successful he has become. She also commented on how hard it would be to have a family member who is gay. Before I could respond she went on to say that she thought most gay people probably were not really gay because she knew three gay people who changed to straight and got married. She kept going on about how hard it would be to cope with a gay family member and she didn't know what she would do if it happened in her family. I replied, "You love them and don't disown or shun them". She sort of passed over that comment and just said, "Well, yes, but you cannot condone being gay! If you are a Christian you cannot just accept that someone is gay and be okay with it".
I guess I'm a coward because I said nothing. I don't know how to reason with someone so closed minded. I just couldn't admit to her I'm no longer any religion at all and do not agree because in her mind I would be a true agent of the Devil. I did, however, let her know I was no longer a Mormon. She took credit for that because she had put my name on a prayer roll of some kind so that I would see how far astray I was as a Mormon.
How do I tell this woman that she prayed me out of the pot into the fire? As an atheist I think she would see me as even worse off with God than a Mormon but I'm not really sure of that. I just don't want to go there with her.
I am from the midwest and I'm surprised by how many of my home town friends have similar opinions to this. Although they are a more diverse group, including Catholics, they seem to have really hard core beliefs of this nature. I know now, I could never go back to living in my home town.