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Date: September 28, 2014 10:11PM
My favorite of the three, who I will call Sister B, is the one who I would guess had problems entirely because of Mormonism. She was raised in a small, Wasatch front town and was very artsy, out-there, creative wonderful sort of person. Very emotional. I saw her once or twice after the mission and she was so much better, calmer, without the pressures of the mission. She always said that if our MP became a GA that she'd know the church wasn't true and would leave. She hated him because she was really suffering, mentally, emotionally and physically and he blew her off, calling her overly emotional and implying she was making up her physical symptoms. When she got home, an international disease specialist told her that during her time in a small, Spanish town there was a recall on some olive oil that had been tainted with motor oil. The recall was only in and around the pueblo she was working in. She probably ingested some of this oil because the damage to her intestines was consistent with her symptoms, according to this specialist. Symptoms the MP thought were emotional and exaggerated. She will have the physical problems with it her whole life. BTW, the MP was made a general authority about a decade ago so I have high hopes she's out.
Another one, Sister C, went around telling everyone she had a metal plate in her head and had to show a medical card whenever she went through a metal detector. I saw her go through one at the airport as she went home early and it didn't go off at all. Why would you tell people that if it wasn't true? She was on about 12 different meds and would get so depressed, I'd hide the meds at bedtime then get up early and get them out again because I was worried she'd wake up in the middle of the night and scarf the lot.
Another one, Sister E, was just a mess. She very literally never stopped talking. I don't know if this was a nervous condition or not but the MP had to transfer her every month because no one could stand her talking from morning to night. Her last companion "confessed" she'd bought Sister E a Walkman for her going home present, knowing this sister loved music, and told her she could listen to it all she wanted - since it was her last month in the mission and all. With her headphones on, she finally shut up. The mission president looked at this companion for a long minute then, instead of berating her for breaking the mission rules, just sighed and said "I wish I'd thought of that myself."
And those are just the ones I was with. Two of the sisters had been models to pay for their missions and you could never get them to do any work. One of them broke every rule in the book, including trying to convert a gay guy by getting him to fall in love with her. As soon as he was baptized, she dumped him and he left the church and swore he'd never have anything to do with Mormons or women again. There was also a loud, brassy brunette from Newport Beach who had to be transferred from her first area for making out with her zone leader. When she got into a disagreement with the elders, she would grab her left breast, wave it at the elder and say "Elder, if you don't like it you can suck my left one." And she had a problem with pathological lying. She'd read us the letters she wrote home and they were flat out lies - saying things like she'd been asked to teach an aerobics class or had a famous investigator when it wasn't even a little bit true.
The best was when one of the sisters, who was my MTC roommate, caught up with me after my mission. She was so calm, tranquil and centered compared to the loud, always joking, hyper, party girl I'd known in the mission field. I asked her what brought about the change and she said she'd left Mormonism, gotten into massage, meditation, and helping others through hypnosis and other new agey things. But most of all, she'd admitted she was gay, left her obligatory Mormon husband, and was with a very nice girlfriend. Her authenticity made all the difference in her peace of mind and I was so happy for her.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 09/28/2014 10:15PM by CA girl.