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Date: December 16, 2013 11:42AM
My Dad is so oblivious when it comes to religion! It's the weirdest situation, but he doesn't seem to understand that just because you have good memories doesn't mean it's a good place!
We used to be Mormon and we found our way out through research and realizing all of the corruption etc. But he wants to go back! I keep trying to pull him away and he will listen to what I say but it's becoming almost a daily occurence where he will say "I miss (the most positive thing he can possibly think of about the Mormon church)" and then end with "but I want to go wherever my kids are comfortable." And he knows that none of us want to go there but it feels like he's trying to persuade us.
The most unfortunate part of this is that everything he mentions is about the "friendship" and the "emphasis on family" and he thinks about all the funny/good memories we had at the church (he also doesn't seem to realize that we have so many more good memories outside of that church that have nothing to do with it. The actual amount of good memories he can recall is miniscule). I'm pretty sure he has completely forgotten how controlling it was and how many problems there were underneath the superficial comradery.
I have no certain idea why he is getting sucked into the social aspect of it (although I suspect that he is feeling lonely and stressed...possibly a midlife crisis) but I really hope he figures out why it would be a terrible idea.