Posted by:
Richard Foxe
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Date: November 22, 2013 08:36AM
If 'it's the thought that counts,' then that shows real thoughtfulness. If you've been out of contact for a while, isn't there someone close to them, a sibling or not, who knows their current interests, hobbies, needs. If the gift really fits (and this is the gist of Emerson's essay on "Gifts") then it IS a gift of love. Emerson's essay is worth pondering:
http://www.authorama.com/essays-second-series-10.htmlHe says flowers and fruit are always fitting. Going deeper, know the person's needs and get something that meets them. Next to necessity, give something "that which properly belong(s) to his character and [is] easily associated with him in thought." Don't give trinkets, even valuable ones, that are simply "apologies for gifts." "The only gift is a portion of thyself" = give something that you have made...
Interesting essay.