Posted by:
acoustic truth
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Date: January 10, 2013 05:13PM
I find myself having a much more tolerant and accepting attitude on many things than I had as a tbm. It seems that the culture in general is hellbent on getting everyone to conform to some mormon prototype.
I was watching a reality singing competition (The Voice) on TV a few weeks back with some tbm in-laws and they couldn't stop negatively commenting on the outfits and fashion choices of contestants and judges alike. It wasn't just the "immodest" accusation (a tbm favorite) either.
Even after I had casually commented, to each his own, or different strokes for different folks to try to tactfully bring it to their attention, they continued to rail on the ridiculous clothing, sunglasses, style etc.
They literally couldn't help themselves. These are people that don't send their kids to public school because they don't believe in a one-size-fits-all approach to educating children with their different personalities etc, so it suprises me that they are so quick to be critical of individuality.
My kids were watching with us so at one point I paused the show and mentioned that people express themselves differently and that life shouldn't be a contest to see who can fit the mold best or an attempt to make everyone look and act the same.
Anybody else get frustrated with this mindset?