Posted by:
axeldc
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Date: July 27, 2014 03:12PM
One thing I don't get are LDS singles. I'm talking over 40s, active Mormons who have never married. I have 4 TBM friends like that I don't get how they keep going.
First of all, they have been relegated back to family wards, even though their actual families live far away. They have to sit in RS and EQ with all these married folks who talk about their kids and grandkids. I hated that when I in my 20s on those rare visits home. I couldn't imagine being permanently stuck as a 1-person "family" in a family ward.
Second, they never get high office. They are always SS teacher or ward clerks. Never marrieds are not considered fully mature until they graduate to married status. Three of them are RMs but they are still treated like they are young adults who just happen not to be young.
All 3 have masters degrees and professional jobs. They constantly post on FB about how great the church is, but the church has no real place for them.
I guess I wonder why they can't figure out it's BS. If they stopped going, not many people would really care and the church has already written them off. Maybe they just use the sunken costs argument, but they still have half their lives to live and service as a 2nd class citizen seems little fun to me.