Posted by:
orion74
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Date: July 23, 2014 11:50AM
One thing I like about RfM is that there are people here who have similar experiences of having to deal with TBM friends and family after the confessions of disbelief occur. I have to keep coming back to RfM just to gain strength from everyones experiences and commitments to telling the truth about TSCC. I have been inactive for many years, I became burned out and quit going to church. Only then was I able to start seeking answers to the difficult questions that I have had all my TBM life and study my way out of the church. My wife has also become inactive but remains confused about whether the church is true or not or if religion really matters at all. Two years ago we quit wearing garments, what a relief! My disbelief is known to my DM and my DB and DS and it has caused some conflicts so I have had to keep religion out of my discussions to keep the peace. My DM is in her eighties and it is the last thing I want to do is fight about mormonism. Mormonism works for her and comforts her in her twilight years. But when my wife and I went back home to visit, my DM realized, to her horror, that we were not wearing garments. The night before we left to come back home, my DM sat both my wife and I down and gave us a good tongue lashing. So here am I, in my fifties, getting disciplined by my mother. I was upset that my DM brought my wife into the discussion! It should have only been between me and my DM! I thought we had agreed to NOT discuss religion! I wanted to blast out all of the things I have learned but had to refrain due to the fact that I do not want to cause her stress at her age over her chosen religion. She wants to know why I have left TSCC. I said it was church history and doctrine. I mentioned the ‘Journal of Discourses’ being a treasure trove of wacky teachings. She had never heard of the ‘ Journal of Discourses’. Good grief! REALLY! I have tried to not let this experience upset me but it has. For so many years I have had to defend TSCC and it’s ridiculous teachings, convince myself that TSCC is true and now I have to defend my unbelief! I am so sick and tired of it all, I just want to be left alone and live my life as I choose without anymore guilt trips from anyone! I apologize for the lengthy post and thanks for letting me vent.