Posted by:
ExMoBandB
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Date: July 05, 2014 12:19AM
You are right! Out here, among the shunned people, are doctors, nurses, lawyers, firemen, policemen, counselors, therapists, teachers--and everyone we really need! Who needs cookies and mumbo-jumbo blessings? Knotheatusc's husband has his wife! I have my entire family, who also resigned from the cult.
Shunning can still be very abusive. People live longer if they have friends. People are happier if they belong to a group. Humans are social beings. In our cave-man days, humans literally depended on the group for survival. In a way, we still do. Happiness increases when it is shared. Sorrow is eased when it is shared.
Shunning is designed to take away a person's value. The group doesn't need you for anything. The group doesn't care about you. The shunners want you to feel like Hell. Being overlooked, like you are not even there, can be crazy-making. When ALL of your group of friends suddenly stop taking to you, you start thinking something is wrong with YOU. In America, and in the business world, the majority is always right, huh. "Everyone" thinks you suck. Logic tells you that you left a religion. You are the same person you were the day before you left, and you can't figure out, logically, why FRIENDS suddenly won't speak to you anymore.
I left quietly, with no explanations. No one cared to ask. Instead, they told me why I left (I was offended). I did nothing to threaten their testimonies, or try to change their mind about Mormonism, or try to indoctrinate their children, like they did to me.
Mormons think they work for God. They "follow the Prophet." Actually, God will never punish us for leaving an evil cult. But the Mormons will take it upon themselves to judge and punish others in God's behalf.
Shunning is outer darkness.
Shunning is cruel, and I don't like cruel people. It is sooooo too late for me to be friends with these people, ever again.