Posted by:
cynicalfreckle
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Date: April 20, 2014 11:35PM
i have no where else to turn right now, and i'd really like someone's help, preferably an ex-mormon or a member currently questioning their beliefs...
im 17 years old and obviously still living at home with my extremely Mormon parents. although i have no problem with them being mormon seeing as it makes them happy, im becoming exhausted with guilt and the pressure of trying to be who they want me to be. this year i've been going really late to seminary. there are reasons. at the beginning of the school year i was asked to be the seminary VP and i gladly accepted. as the year went on i became really annoyed with the President of our seminary class aka Queen Bitch because of her comments towards everyone in that class. when people were sharing their thoughts and opinions, she would outwardly tell them that they were absolutely WRONG and begin to tell them the facts. the seminary teacher does nothing about this. in fact he practically worships her.
so yeah i became pretty fed up with seminary and i didnt have the motivation to wake up super early and learn about the gospel yay!! i have always been an outcast of my church and i've been in the same ward ever since i was born basically. so yeah i show up late for seminary and catch a few minutes of it but i MAINLY go because i have the responsibility of car-pooling kids to school. to me, people getting to school is important. my attendance to seminary is not.
when i dont wake up on time, i'm either awaken by pounding on my door or a sting of hurtful words (at least hurtful when you first wake up) such as "youre late, again (you disappointment of a child)" or "really? really?" and then of course my dad will go get dressed and sit on the stairs or the couch downstairs and glare at me as i walk out of the door late.
so this constant fear and anxiety has been instilled and pounded into my brain this whole school year because im such a disappointment to my family, all because i dont show up to a fucking sunday school class EVERY day before school of the hardest school year with an enormous work load and tons of stress
i really want to leave sometimes, but i know i cant. they tell me i have options, choices. but i know i dont! i have two options; do what they want me to do and be constantly unsure of my own beliefs, or do what i want and be shunned from my family and church. please help me. any insight would be gladly appreciated.