Are:

1. Cool down
2. Discuss and agree about the problem
3. Brainstorm solutions
4. Choose a solutionstogether
5. Try the solution

Works in all relationships... except cult related matters.

So this is useless when dealing with Mormons - that's what you're saying?

Mormons

1. Shut the hell up.
2. You are the problem.
3. Get the fuck out.
4. Now.
5. Why are you still here?

Overly simplistic. #2 is where almost all fights reside.

People aren't machines. Determining the "problem" is often the problem in the first place.

"You're too lenient with the kids."

"No, you're too strict."

There is no one true answer, and resolution isn't simply picking a solution at random.

Compromise and mitigating harm from disagreements requires more than simple instructions.