Posted by:
lily
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Date: April 12, 2014 03:10AM
I have a few questions. There are things that come up on message boards with TBMs and I don't know that I believe them. So tell me your honest opinion (or what it would have been) back when you were TBM.
1. Would you have done temple work even if the deceased's family would not give permission or actually requested it NOT be done? Did you believe that it was for a greater good, akin to lying for the Lord?
2. We joke here about baptizing all Mormons gay or whatever to try to make them understand how offensive necro-dunking is. If I would have told you that my church was doing rituals for people to undo the endowment/baptize them gay/whatever, would it have bothered you? I often hear Mormons say "I don't care because you don't have the authority" (which to me is their admission that it COULD be offensive if they DO have the authority, which they believe they do) but it usually sounds... like posturing. Like it really would bother them, but they won't admit it because then they'd have to admit they were doing something offensive.
I guess I just have a hard time believing people wouldn't be upset about you using their name in rituals after they die when they get so worked up over things like gay marriage which usually doesn't effect them in the slightest.