Posted by:
jujubee
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Date: March 12, 2014 07:02PM
my parents treat me like a child. Yesterday, I went into the kitchen to get a drink before heading out. My mom was doing dishes, so I said a simple "excuse me" and got water. (Usually my mom refuses to move when doing dishes and I need a drink.)
She then chided me for not saying "please".
I understand that politeness is good, I just don't always remember the magic words 100% of the time. So sue me. Last time this happened, she refused to pass me the hamburgers, cause I forgot "please" : then she held the plate to her chest. What am I, two??
I've told my parents not to do this cause I feel it's degrading to me and it's how you'd treat a young child, yet they continue. The reality is that I feel it's abusive for them to continue after I told them it's hurtful to me.