Posted by:
Aenon E. Moss
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Date: December 31, 2013 03:34AM
Since we're strolling down memory lane...
Joined the Church when I was 18, so never been to a Youth Dance.
I went to YSA dances from the age of 18 until about 34, when they finally started kicking me out. Mostly in the Seattle area, but I also lived in Utah (Provo and Salt Lake) and also southern California for a few years. Back in the 1980s the Seattle YSA had dances every Friday and Saturday night, except for maybe one Saturday a month. It was great. Many years later, the Young Adult dances dwilded down to two a month, then only one. Don't ask me what happened. I met one of my girlfriends at a YSA dance, when I was 26. Oh yes, met another gf at a YSA dance when I was 22. Met another gf at a single's dance when I was 34, and not even a Member anymore. Met another gf at a YSA dance when I was 29, and on the going inactive. So, met four of my six girlfriends at Mormon dances.
Being a loner with Asperger's syndrom, the dances were really my only chance to socialize. But, being a loner, didn't do much of that at the dances. But, if was fun to watch the pretty girls dance. Even addictive. I usually only socialized with other loners, who weren't very socialable either. Mostly, I just stood there and watched the pretty girls dancing. That's about it. Did that for 18 years, until I finally was forced to go to the SA dances.
The Single Adult dances are SCARY! It's supposed to be over 30. Let me tell you, they are more likely over 50! Never saw anyone in their 30s at a SA dance. At SA dances you the following types of women....
Fat women
Fatter women
too old women
Fugly women
plain janes
(very rare) attractive women in her early 40s
The attractive women in their early 40s get MOBBED by men at the SA dances, including men into their 70s. If you don't dance with one of these attractive women as soon as they walk into the Cultural Hall, then FORGET IT, you'll never get a change to! One of the Don Juans will wind up dancing with her the entire dance.
I've attended SA dances since about age 33 until today (53). So, I know a lot about them. I've heard "Gimme that Old Time Rock-and-Roll" played at SA dances so many times I think I'm gonna SCREAM if I hear it again!!! When I hear that coming on, I have to run to the Foyer. Many years ago, the fat women didn't dance at all. However, for about 15 years or so, they've been dancing the Line Dances. We didn't have Line Dances at the YSA dances when I attended them. I'm happy the Fat girls have something to do now except raiding the snack bar.
Never been married, so I didn't meet my "wife" at a Church dance. Met some hopefuls, but never panned out. If you live in the Salt Lake City area, try out Dee's dances. They are the most popular for the over 35 crowd. Always packed. Just do the three "W" thing, and a dot, and "deesdances" and another dot, and a "c o m" thing and you'll see their web site. Dee's has a huge dance every Saturday night, in Salt Lake Valley, or, once a month, in Lindon (Utah County). They are always good, and, believe it or not, a handful of attractive women always show up.