Posted by:
forestpal
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Date: October 30, 2013 02:20AM
You are right.
Never--even with all the shunning and gossip when we resigned--never were we treated so badly as when we were good, active Mormons. I've gone over the details of the abuse before, so I won't repeat it, except to say that the adult priesthood leaders physically punished my sons for being late. They were kind, happy, well-behaved kids, and were merely tired from their paper route, and didn't take church seriously enough. The committed no crimes, no rebellions. Physical punishment by a teacher or leader is a crime. My children were afraid to tell me of this.
I havent' encountered a nastier group of people (as a group) as our Utah ward. Even the junior high and high school cliques and gossip-fests were no match for the adult Mormons here.
I will gladly take the shunning, though it did sting a bit to lose all my Mormon friends, after years of bringing them dinners, letting their kids play at our house, playing the piano at their parties, etc. The Mormons can't hurt us now, because they are not in our lives.
Other good examples of the two-faced friendships are the Mormon neighbors who rushed to convert my best friend. They made a big fuss over her and her husband, drove them to church, gave them the best callings, catered to their children. As soon as they were officially baptized and sealed in the temple--bam--it all stopped cold. My friends were CONVERTS, you see, and not as worthy as the BIC Mormons. Also, both had been married before, and the children had different fathers. Fortunately, my friends found out about the doctrinal lies, and that rudeness was standard Mormon behavior, and they left the cult, taking their children with them.