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anon4areason
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Date: September 13, 2013 10:23AM
not 100% accurate because it wasn’t recorded but as close to the actual conversation as possible.
On a flight to the west coast from Salt Lake City a man and woman were seated together. They struck up a conversation about the hot weather and the lateness of their flight. It appeared that they were both traveling home to the west coast. The following conversation was overheard.
Man: What brought you to Salt Lake?
Woman: I came for the memorial service of a friend.
Man: I’m sorry for your loss. (Pause) Do you mind my asking what your friend’s religion was?
Woman: I’m not sure.
Man: I was just wondering if it had been an LDS service.
Woman: Oh, no. That wouldn’t have happened.
Man: So your friend was not Mormon?
Woman: Well, I guess she had been. She had been a Mormon missionary at one time.
Man: So she left the Mormon church.
Woman: Not exactly, she was a lesbian and so it was not possible for her to be a Mormon.
Man: Well, you know that the Mormon church is open and welcoming to gay people. We just ask that they live the standards of our religion.
Woman: Gay people can belong to your church just as long as they don’t have sexual relationships?
Man: That’s one of the standards of the religion and there are several others…….
Woman: So, you’re saying that gay people are not allowed to have loving, committed, intimate, relationships during their lifetimes?
Man: (pause) well yes, that’s what our church teaches. I’ve had some experience with gay people in my congregation. I’m a Mormon bishop and a young man that I’d known all his life struggled with the issue of being gay.
Woman: What happened to him?
Man: He left the church. We also had a woman in the ward who came to me to share that her son was gay. She told me not to make her choose between her son and her church. After a while she stopped coming and then she quit the church. I saw how they struggled and it’s really a difficult thing.
Woman: It sounds like it.
Man: We just have to trust in the inspiration of our church leaders.
Woman: I’m sorry but I don’t understand the “trusting in inspiration” part. How was it OK for your church to be inspired to keep black people out of the highest part of your church and then be inspired to change that? How is it inspired for Joseph Smith to marry 14 year olds or women who already had husbands and then be inspired to change that? Are you thinking that it is going to happen for gay people too?
Man: I’m not sure but that is the way things are now. These are really difficult things for us to figure out.
(There was a fair amount of turbulence for a while and so the conversation was interrupted)
Woman: I’d like to know something.
Man: OK
Woman: How is it possible that you don’t have a huge amount of confusion because what you are told to do and what you actually believe?
Man: Well, I believe that I have to have faith and that things will fall into place and make sense.
The conversation ended and a long period of time elapsed. Then, right before the plane landed…..
Man: By the way, I want thank you for our conversation. I can tell that we are coming from very different places but I appreciate hearing your thoughts.
Woman: Well, I probably wouldn’t have shared my thoughts if you hadn’t brought it up.
Man: I just want you to know that you’ve given me a lot to think about. I mean that sincerely … you’ve given me things to think about that are at the core of my beliefs.