Posted by Pierre Charles on July 12, 1998 at 23:05:21:
In Reply to: relationships with believers..... posted by thor on July 12, 1998 at 19:15:09:
: What do you do if you fall in love with a TBM?
: What to do if you are in a relationship with a TBM and the truth would kill
: them?
Jesus said; The Truth will make you free
But I understand what you mean. I was in love with a Christian girl and she cannot accept that I am Raelian. To me a person is firstly a human. I couldn't let her think I will convert someday, so I said if you don't accept me as I am, and the same for me toward you, I prefer to stop this relationship.
The problem is always if you secretely think you can change the others opinions. Thats impossible. They will change only if they decide to.
Don't let your chemicals reactions govern your life. Your consciousness should be your guide.
Is it completely unethical to keep quiet? Or should one subversively
: introduce them to a different worldview?
: i have my own opinions, but i'd like to hear what y'all think..
You will not bet happy if you are not totally honest. It will not work. I tell you. Even more if there is no God who will "miraculously" make you change your or her mind.
Don't waste her time. There are certainly hundreds of girls who already think like you do and who are alone somewhere waiting to be happy without the need of a belief in Gods.